Life isn't complicated, but we make it so. Complications in life erupts when we expect too much from our future. We set targets, that can can change as time passes and when 'it' happens the feeling of blue surrounds us with the ambiance of lowness. Things will happen that may not favor our interest but we have to accept and then move on.
Me being a over emotional creature, go through complications daily. Sometimes thoughts occupy my mind and decide to stick deep into my brains like parasites. It is difficult to let go of them, but we are humans and we can't avoid these powerful emotions but we can certainly control them. Controlling them is difficult but then you see the people around you, they aren't all made in the happy mold but they still work. You are not on this earth to limit your life to complications. You are here to extract the sweetness, smell the aura and then brace yourself to stand up again.
So what is it that people tell 'love creates complications' ?
Let us study this in a broader sense - Love gets its complications when
expectations boil over the bar. So what is this bar? This bar is when you expect every time you deliver. It is natural to expect, there is nothing to change here but mind you, the expectations are yours and you must be ready to remold yourself when you don't see things going your way. This happens in all modes of love be it fatherly, motherly, brotherly, sisterly, friendly or romantic love.
I have expectations from people for whom I care and love but I have been told never to to complaint if I don't see my wants getting complete and this is what protects me from getting down in the cold stream of low spirit. I get sad but after then I am awakened by my friends and family to set foot in the life again. I have a target to achieve, for which I will work hard but I won't sit disheartened if changes come. I will have to accept it and move. I will make sure things go right, I will be with the person I respect, love and care.
But if I over think this with regard to my future, sadness will engulf me.
So what will I do? Stop thinking into lengths of future and start living the moments of present. I will
have a glimpse of what I want my future to be, but
not what is going to be my future.
Emotions are never complicated, our reactions to circumstances are. So it is time we stop complaining, start accepting and LIVING.
Life isn't complicated, but we make it so. Complications in life erupts when we expect too much from our future. We set targets, that can can change as time passes and when 'it' happens the feeling of blue surrounds us with the ambiance of lowness. Things will happen that may not favor our interest but we have to accept and then move on. 
A lie is a lie ,and when it is told , it should be examined by us. Even if we get that we are being pushed into an illusion, we must try to understand if this act by our loved one has the intention to harm us or it is for something to make us happy? Situations like these should not reacted hysterically, most of the time it is for us why, 'they lied'. To make us happy and ever smiling, 'they lied'. So before throwing the mountain of shouts to the loved ones we must know why they lied, and politely make them understand that there was an alternative, 'truth', it might have hurt us for a moment but we together could have easily made a way out of that soon.
