Lie or truth?

It is said to survive the harsh life, dishonesty is accepted. In fact this is true, to survive lying is necessary, but the lie which takes a stake on our morality is a self crime, a crime that we should never commit.

A certain degree of lying can be accepted only when it does no damage to the person to whom we are deceiving. Constant lies cannot nurture relationships, they break them. So, are they necessary in relationships? Yes, to protect our loved ones, we can lie but to make them strong we speak the truth.

A lie is a lie ,and when it is told , it should be examined by us. Even if we get that we are being pushed into an illusion, we must try to understand if this act by our loved one has the intention to harm us or it is for something to make us happy? Situations like these should not reacted hysterically, most of the time it is for us why, 'they lied'. To make us happy and ever smiling, 'they lied'. So before throwing the mountain of shouts to the loved ones we must know why they lied, and politely make them understand that there was an alternative, 'truth', it might have hurt us for a moment but we together could have easily made a way out of that soon.


It has been a  year, I have been practicing to speak truth and I have succeeded so far. Not that I am free of dishonesty,  but I repented every time I lied. I wish to become honest with the people I love and care. My credibility will never be tainted, and if it ever happens I will punish myself. I also desire the same level of honesty to be shared with me by everyone I care for.